January 12, 2010 – 2:40 am

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October 2, 2009 – 1:03 pm
It seems with the advent of dating services and online social networks, came from an entirely different stratosphere. To a certain extent. Now you can meet someone in your corner of the country have an immediate online chat and decide in the comfort of home, if you want to pursue a personal relationship.
Another innovation also seems to change the rules. With the arrival of the BlackBerry, it is no longer necessary, you pick up the phone to confirm we established a date. Now that you compose a short text message, press Send and receive, the date of your correspondence immediately. In today's world is all about speed.
The new game, maybe a lot of progress on a number of things, but sometimes proven methods that have worked for previous generations are still the best way to guide you when it comes to being outside.
1. Let's go out
You can use your BlackBerry for all purposes. Yes, it is proved to be a very useful tool, but when it comes to asking someone for a date is not a good idea. In addition, it is a bit impersonal, but also indicates that the other person, you have not worked enough courage to pick up the phone and call her or she shall issue face to face. See other person and letting you hear your voice effect is slightly larger. They have great passion in writing the text message and share, but when it comes to your potential day comes, it always so cold outside sent.
2. Does or will not
Yes, you can call someone, request an appointment and get no answer or respond to this person face to face and not get a response from the indictment. At least with these two methods, your instincts and powers of observation you can about where you stand. In other words, you have a clear indication of the existence or repeatedly asked to turn the page. Texting someone for a day and still not any kind of feedback do you get a hundred different directions.
They thought you wanted to do, why are they not respond? Are they not available now or never. The point is because you do not have to guess with them not in a direct manner and so that you stay on what happens reported. The mind can play terrible tricks on you when they think you've left open.
3. Sorry, but you can not
This falls into the realm of playing with dynamite. They agreed to go out with you. If you do not, at least them the courtesy of a phone call or face to face rejection. Whether you like it or not, and has broken a date by text message is a clear sign that you are running is as fast as possible. If your date somewhere in the periphery of your social environment, chances are the word about your rudeness (and fear) to spread very quickly. As another person cancellation is up to them, but the least we can do to be ready for their own actions by turning them in the eye or speak with them on the phone.
No doubt some of these new gadgets are great time saving. You can also help in this regard when the coordination of schedules and the place where you and your date. But do not take the place of morals fashion good old days. Whether or not you met a warm voice and body language is more appreciated than words on a remote mini-monitor.